Thursday, October 27, 2011

Pekin times article

There was a really nice article printed in the local paper recently, wanted to copy it here for anyone from out of the area...

http://www.pekintimes.com/topstories/x1199434674/Friends-recall-love-of-teacher


By Sharon Woods Harris
Posted Oct 20, 2011 @ 08:00 AM
PEKIN, Ill. —
Wilson Intermediate School sixth-grade teacher Lisa Schmidgall was known to her students as Mrs. S — much easier to say than her last name.
But Schmidgall was much more than a title and a name at the school. Schmidgall was a dynamic educator who let each and every one of her students into her heart as she searched always for better ways to make them successful in their academic careers and their personal lives.
“Lisa formed a wonderful rapport with her students,” said Wilson School Principal Matt Green. “The environment when you walked into her classroom — the kids wanted to be there.
“She shared a lot about herself with the kids. Kids don’t often look at teachers as people (with outside lives), they think of them as being at the school. Lisa broke that image and shared her life with them. She cared for them in the classroom and out of the classroom and wanted to help them succeed.”
Schmidgall, 33, the wife of Pekin City Councilman Chad Schmidgall and mother of Chloe, 4 and Levi, 2, died at 3:58 p.m. Monday at OSF Saint Francis Medical Center in Peoria after a battle with cancer. She had last taught in December, but was unable to return to the classroom after the holiday break.
Green said Schmidgall will be dearly missed. He said she was dedicated to her family, her students, the community and her faith.
“Anybody who knew her at all knew how important her faith was to her,” he said. “She was full of life, full of energy and had a unique sense of humor that the kids picked up on.
“She taught her students to ask not only what they could do for their school, but what could they do for Pekin.”
Schmidgall started her career as a teacher at Wilson after graduating from college. She completed her internship with Pekin District 108 and was hired as a full-time sixth-grade teacher in 1999 — a grade level that she stayed with throughout her career.
While at Wilson, Schmidgall served as a faculty advisor to the student council. She was involved in community food drives through the school and her church and collecting coins for various charity events, said Green. Schmidgall was also involved in the Spirit Committee, a group of adults at the school who did things for fellow staff members, as well as the curriculum committee.
Lisa Gentry, Schmidgall’s fellow sixth-grade teacher, said Schmidgall was an inspiration to students and helped them deal with not only educational challenges, but home challenges as well.
“Lisa really inspired her kids to do well in writing,” said Gentry. “She gave a lot to her students.
“One of the things that she did was the student council, in that she loved the talent show and inspired the kids to participate. She was never afraid to be kind of silly, and the kids respected her even more because she was willing to embrace them and put herself out there. She was great about teaching the kids about choices — positive choices in life. Lisa built up the kids so they felt good about their academic and personal lives. Lisa was pretty open and allowed the kids to be themselves.”
Teachers gleaned much from Schmidgall’s example and openness, too.
“She was willing to be a friend as well as a mentor,” said sixth-grade teacher Katie Morrison. “I learned so much from her.
“She always made herself available, encouraging not only the kids, but her friends and coworkers as well.”
Morrison said she lived down the street from the Schmidgall family and they shared the same baby-sitter.
“Chloe and Levi could do no wrong — they were just like little Lisas. We were at McDonald’s one night and it was late and she said the kids had not had ice cream yet — we couldn’t leave without them getting ice cream. She wanted even the little things for her kids.”
Schmidgall, said Morrison, made it a point to have fun whenever possible, right up to the end. Schmidgall celebrated her birthday a few weeks early at her parents’ ranch last week, where the family enjoyed a hayrack ride.
“There was a rule at Lisa’s house — you had to have fun,” said Morrison. “We always did.”
Pekin Mayor Laurie Barra said in a written statement that the Pekin City Council, staff and employees of the city “would like to extend their condolences to Chad and his family on the passing of his wife, Lisa.”
“Lisa fought a valiant fight and will always be remembered for her sunny smile and upbeat outlook, as a wonderful wife and mother, and as an excellent role model for the children of our community,” she said. “Throughout the past year, even though Chad may have wanted to be with his wife and family, he attended each meeting, prepared and with a smile on his face.
“Our thoughts and prayers are with Chad and his family, now and in the days to come.”

Thursday, October 20, 2011

http://www.preston-hanley.com/obits/details.cfm?pageID=8&obitID=2618

Lisa Dawn (Yancey) Schmidgall, 33, of 2116 Wildwood Drive, passed away at 3:58 p.m. Monday, October 17, 2011 at OSF Saint Francis Medical Center in Peoria. She formerly resided in Spring Lake.
Born October 31, 1977 in Pekin to Randy Deane and Judy Delores (Hull) Yancey, she married Chad Edward Schmidgall on August 5, 2000 in Washington. He survives.
Also surviving are her parents of Pekin; are one daughter, Chloe Schmidgall of Pekin; one son, Levi Schmidgall of Pekin; one sister, Stacy (Stephen) DeJaynes of Germantown Hills and one brother, Ryan (Heather) Yancey of Mapleton. She also leaves her nieces and nephews, Noah Starr, Isaac Starr, Chris DeJaynes, Jacqueline DeJaynes, Ryder Yancey and Madeline Schmidgall along with her in-laws, Gregg and Sue Schmidgall of Pekin.
Her grandparents preceded her in death.
Lisa graduated in 1999 from Illinois State University in Normal with her Bachelor's degree in Elementary Education. She was a sixth grade classroom teacher at Wilson Intermediate School for Pekin Public Schools District 108 since 1999. At Wilson, Lisa was the SCORE Council sponsor, a student teacher mentor and led several extracurricular activities. Lisa really had a heart for kids and also liked Tigger.
Lisa also had a heart for the needy and volunteered at the Dream Center in Peoria, where she had taught a class to help parents prepare their students for school, helped with their annual back pack give-away and served in their food pantry.
Lisa's faith was a big part of her life. She attended First Baptist Church in Pekin and formerly attended Riverside Community Church in Peoria.
Her memorial service will be at 10 a.m. October 29, 2011 at First Baptist Church in Pekin. Pastor Mark D. Friday will officiate. An open house to celebrate Lisa's life will then be held from 10:30 until 2 p.m. in the fellowship hall at the church. Arrangements have been entrusted to Preston-Hanley Funeral Homes & Crematory in Pekin.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions be made to Mrs. S's Scholarship fund in care of any CEFCU Member Center. The family intends to evenly split the proceeds for her childrens' education and for an annual scholarship to assist low income students attend college.

Sunday, October 16, 2011

The end is near

Lisa is currently in the process of transitioning out of this life... away from her current worn down body and into an indescribably beautiful one.  She is very close to leaving her earthly restraints and becoming a cherished soul in heaven.  Her condition has dramatically worsened over the past several days, and given her current symptoms, we are being told that the time for her to hear those words she so desires is very near; “Well done, good and faithful servant”

Before she hears those wonderful words, she has spent her few lucid moments enjoying our precious children and families.  Rest assured that she is certainly enveloped in love.  Please pray for a painless and peaceful transition.


May the winds of compassion carry on in our hearts forever, with tears in our eyes we cherish the path you illuminated. 

-Your husband

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Party

It's Chad again,

Thanks to everyone who made it out yesterday, it was a beautiful night, nice bonfire, hayrack rides, and I'm pretty sure there were plenty of hot dogs, smores, and horseback rides to go around. 

Lisa said it was really good to see everyone.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Quick update

This is Chad, just giving everyone who randomly still checks the blog an update.

Went to go see the oncologist Wednesday, going to continue using Tarceva for at least one more round, which is 28 days.  There is still 7 or 8 days left on this round, so we will start the next series next week.

We will go see the doc. again in 4 weeks, and discuss scans vs. one more round of Tarceva, trying to maintain the balance between waiting to long to try something different, and waiting long enough for the new drug to do its work.

Lisa is getting up and around on her leg quite a bit now.  Using the walker to move around on the upper floor at our house, and going up and down the stairs with some assistance.  Unfortunately she is having some short-term memory issues, and we are trying to pinpoint the reason for it, there are so many factors that could be causing it, between the Tarceva, morphine, fentanyl, ativan and the original whole brain radiation we just aren't sure.  So for the time being, if you have anything important to communicate, please try and get a hold of me.

Also, don't forget her brother is planning an early (since her birthday isn't until Oct. 31)party for Lisa this Saturday out at her parents ranch.  We are doing it over the 3 day weekend so Lisa's aunts/uncles/cousins etc. can come up from Alabama...  No gifts necessary, we'll have hot dogs, chili, and if its nice out we'll get some horses out as well.  We're telling everyone to come on out around 6.  We'll likely be there for the better part of the day though.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Can you hear me now?

I know many of you have been trying to keep up with me through my blog and I haven't done a very good job of keeping it updated. Here are our present circumstances.
I will not be part of the  Chicago trial. This last round of radiation (10 days) put me up to almost 2 months. No one was comfortable waiting for the flush period of radiation (2 weeks) before starting chemo treatments.  So the doctors conferred and decided to just go ahead and put me on the tarceva.  I will take 1 pill each night before bed in addition to my regular medicines.  The good news is no trips to Chicago and I will still get the same medicine (except the unknown trial drug).  The bad news, the transition has been physically difficult.  I get PT and OT twice a week and I think that they have it out for me!!

Chloe is getting used to school routines and loves to go!  Levi however, just doesn't understand why he can't go with her.  With the change in our schedule both kids are as tired as we are!  Most nights we are all in bed by 8:30! Chloe actually announces on her own that she is going to sleep now.

Chad and company got the pool closed today :(  We made it to the Marigold Festival.  Chad took both kids on the firetruck for the parade.  And Chloe has been signed up for Suzuki.  The tiniest violin I have ever seen arrived in the mail today.  She is very excited to get started!

Ryan is hoping to throw a HUGE birthday party at mom and dad's horse ranch October 8th.  Hopefully I can catch up with most of you in person.  I promise to blog more often this time!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

I think what we have here is a failure to communicate!

My apologies.
The short version of my most recent adventures -
went to Huntsville, went to Gulf Shores,signed Chloe up for kindergarten, Got bad news of a growth splurge, broke a leg, had surgery.

Our trip to Alabama was great! I will post pictures of it at a later time, but for now I'll tell you that pirate cruises rock!

We signed Chloe up for kindergarten at "Altman Kindergarten School" and went school supply shopping. It was just Chloe, Aunt Stac, Uncle Ry, & me. We had a blast and Chloe was super cute! If you ask her if she is excited about kindergarten, she'll tell you :"I'm really excited about school but I sure wich I didn't have to get shots!"
She and Chloe started back to Aunt Beth's full time now so I'm hoping for some gfreat consistency for them.

When we returnrd from Alabama, we went in for chemo. My counts came back REALLY low and I was not allowed to take treatments. I had to go in firts thing Friday moring for a 3 unit transfusion. It was super thoughtful of the infUnion lab poeple to bring us asparkling grape juice and a bowl of fresh fruit for out anniversary!  The other news was that she was sending us back to Chicago. The reports still show shrinkage in the original tumors, but new have come out all over the place.  Stac & Stephen took Chad and me to see Dr. Salgia. He would like to put me in a trial with a well known drug and an experimental drug. He was also concerned about my pain. They order radiation to just the place on my back where a tumor was pressing on a fracture causing my pain. That started Monday.

When I got back home Monday afternoon, I was gathering things to take to my bed to work on.  I found a bag needed in Chloe's room. Sparing gory details, I fell backwards and broke my femur. The break is almost at the ball of my hip so surgery was the only option. I was petrified! They inserted a rod into my leg from my knee to my hip. I am staying here until they all decide I had enough therapy to be able to get along on my own. We decided to look into home health help and ask our friends and family to take turns Schmidgsitting. I will ask Heather the best way to get this on the calender. Feel free to call her too if you want to schmidgsit.

I was so afraid this whole time! Even now, I'm putting off telling the nurse I have to pee because I don't want to have to get up. Whhhaaaat?  It's hard and uncomfortable!
As my sister was hugging me and understanding my fears she told be something very insightful:
You know that verse everyone talks about that God never gives you more than you can bear? It's a great theory, but it's not in the bible. That verse says god will not give you what you cannot handle with out giving His strength to get through. He never intended for us to have nerves of steel. There is no way I could have crawled around on my back trying to find my phone. It was all God being right there with me empowering me to do what I needed to.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Full Plate!

I went for Chemo treatment #8 yesterday, July 14. At the end of June, I started having back issues, had some scans done, and discovered bulging disks. I was referred to a chiropractor and given a lot of pain meds. My 1st chiro appt was also scheduled for the same day in the afternoon.
Chemo always starts with lab work, followed by a Dr. appt, followed by administration of the meds. The lab work came back with my hemoglobin 7.4. You may recall that transfusions are ordered for any reading below 8. I HAD to agree to a blood transfusion immediately before Dr. would agree to administer chemo. So after chemo we went to get "Type and cross checked" which requires a draw of 1 vial of blood. My port was already access because of chemo so it was literally just hooking up a vial to the tube sticking out of my shirt. 3 hours later, that's right I said THREE HOURS later, I was on the phone with the chiropractor letting them know I would be late.
I was nervous about seeing a chiropractor and possibly being in more pain, but I really feel good about it now. The Dr. is very personable, easy to understand, gentle, and seems to be thorough. After some initial x-rays, we got to SEE my spine. It is curved like a C! That's correct, my spine, because it's me, curves to the side, not forward! We have a plan in place and treatments were started right away. I think the people in the building next door heard my back crack the first time!
On top of all that, we are dog sitting my sister's 2 HUGE golden retrievers, we are participating in a golf outing this weekend, and we have 2 benefits (Mine and Carson LaDage's) next weekend. My cousin is coming from Alabama and Chad has friends/family coming from out of state for the benefit.
THEN...we're planning a vacation with my brother to Huntsville and Gulf shores, Alabama returning home just in time for chemo #9 and registering our baby girl for kindergarten! Yes I said KINDERGARTEN!
We will have complete scans like were done with my original diagnosis on July 22. At that point we may have "make some big decisions" added to our list of things to do!

 We are looking forward to relaxing and enjoying the company during this busy time. Pray for us to still find time to relax and enjoy each other! Try to stay cool!

Friday, July 8, 2011

Hall of Fame

Friday, July 1st I hosted my 12th Hall of Fame Party. This is something I do every year for the kids who do great all year but don't get enough attention during class because of those students not doing so great. Students are able to earn "runs" all year. If they earn enough, they get an invitation in their report cards to a private party after the school year has ended. These parties generally reflect the interests of each particular class.

This year, I invited all my students since they had to deal with my circumstances and multiple subs and did so successfully. I am very impressed with my class and proud of them! We had a pool party at my house. I had some great helpers that should be put in the Hall of Fame as well! Mrs. Ringel and Mrs. Morrison both came Thursday and early Friday to help get ready. Mrs. Morrison did the shopping and supervising. Mrs. Ringel got my yard ready and grilled the dogs for us. Several parents donated foods/snacks. A grand time was had by all! The students loved the slide and diving board! I wish I could have felt better and done more, but I really felt loved when everyone chipped in and helped!

I wish I could put everyone into a Hall of Fame who has been helping us out. I can't tell you how much it lifts my spirits!

Latest Results

I have had 2 MRI scans in the last 2 weeks.

The first was of my back and showed bulging disks in my lower back. Right?! If it's not one thing then it's another! It was fairly excruciating, but I hope to get to a chiropractor next week. I am on some strong pain meds and trying (not very successfully, mind you) to take it easy.

The second MRI was an updated brain scan. It showed no change. I didn't figure it would, but I had forgotten that the last one was on steroids, this one was off. The good news here is that as long as the brain symptoms are under control and the lesions don't change, I do NOT have to go back on the steroids. Woo Hoo!

My next chemo is on July 14th. Hopefully we can fill in some blanks (like whether or not to go back to work, can I be with the kids alone, can I drive...) at that appointment.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Long time no blog!

Ok, so this will be a long one because I have been so neglectful. Feel free to just skim :)

I did get one unit of blood which brought me up to an 8.7. I went ahead the next week and got another one. That one started to make a difference in my energy levels, but I ran into some other problems. I appreciate all the offers to donate, but I am set for now. My type is A+ (like a teacher!) and my sister, brother, dad, and several uncles match.

You know by now that my life cold not just be that easy! I've  had a pain in my lower back for a while now. Over the last month, it got more frequent and more intense. An MRI was finally ordered.  The bad news is it turns out I have bulging disks from L5 - S1; my lower back. The Good news is there is no tumor pinching nerves around my spine.

On the home front, my parents have finished their business with the ranch. They are now full-time horse ranchers! Ry's garage is almost done so he can start another house project, and Stac is on the conference circuit for school based community medical clinics. Chad's brother and family will be in town from Colorado for the July 23rd benefit and are trying to work it out to move back to Illinois. Anyone know of some jobs for a certified prek-3 teacher? She could teach at a preschool/kindergarten or be director for a daycare center. Kelsey got her acceptance letter for ISU! We had a great visit with some of my dad's family and are working on plans to visit Alabama.



We can't seem to get the pool going. The weather keeps putting gunk in the pool and every time Chad tries to work on it, he breaks something! My nephew Chris has had a little more luck inside learning to hang things and keep a house going between drippy ceilings, broken tiles, and overflowing toilets!

Last Friday, I gave a speech at the Relay for Life at Mineral Springs Park. It was a lovely ceremony for which I was honorary survivor. I appreciate the nice comments about my speech. I had prayed it would be just what people needed to hear.



This Friday will be my Hall of Fame party for my students. It's probably naive to think the pool will be ready, but I, of course, have a back up plan.

I am still so blessed by the number of people helping us and reaching out. It makes our burden so much lighter when we are able to share it!

Have a great 4th of July holiday! Don't forget to honor/thank a veteran!

Friday, June 10, 2011

Draaaaagging!

I realize it has been a while since I updated. I know, right?! Before my last chemo treatment, my lab work showed my hemoglobin was a 9. At an 8 they recommend a transfusion. Then I had another treatment. The dr. suggested I call and have my hemoglobin checked if I didn't perk up in a few days. Well, I didn't perk up. The first weekend, I actually slept about 20 out of 24 hours! So Monday I went and got checked and it came back as 6.9. Red Cross does what is called a directed donation so someone I know can give their blood directly to me. Many of my family members and close friends are matches so that's not a problem. The problem is the hour and a half I had to spend on the phone this morning trying to get the details and make sure I could receive the blood as soon as possible. Right?! Crazy!

So the end result is that I go in tomorrow morning at 9 to the pekin hospital to receive one unit of blood from my brother. My sister donated, but hers was contaminated by the people who collected it. She is steaming hot about that! I actually need 2 units. My dad and uncle will go tomorrow and donate. On Monday, I will have my blood rechecked and decide if I want to get another unit. That's where my dad and uncle come in. By the time Tuesday rolls around, their donations should be ready should I need them.

I am excited about the prospect of actually having energy again! This time without all the side effects of the steroid! By the way, I am completely off the steroid now except the day before, of, and after chemo. It has been a long weening process and I still take one every now and then, but the swelling is slowly going down and I feel much stronger, no more useless legs. I'm still not going to be running any races, but I can make it up our stairs!

I'm sorry if it seems like I have ignored you or avoided you. I assure you it's nothing personal. I have been faithful to listen to my husband (even though I hate when he's right!) and rest as much as possible. If I am resting I don't answer my phone and I haven't even touched my netbook for days! Right!? That's why I can't wait for this transfusion!

Happy Weekend!

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Relay

I just want to let everyone know that the Pekin Relay for Life is June 24th. Youth Activities start at 3pm. At 6:30 I will be giving a speech as an honorary survivor and leading the survivor lap. I am thankful for this opportunity to be a witness for my faith! I hope to see you there! Mineral Springs Park lagoon.

I found out this week my best friends nephew has a tumor at the base of his brain. He is 4 years old. It's amazing how many lives can be changed by cancer. The American Cancer Society really does a lot to help people through it. It's a cause worth your time and money!

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Is it summer yet?

I am SSOOOO ready for summer fun! I am excited about Wilson play dates, swim parties, and some travelling! We have started to get the pool going, but it seems each time Chad gets one thing going, something else comes up! Isn't that life!?

I had another round of chemo this last week. Dr. is going on vacation so I will be going 4 weeks before my next treatment. Yeah extra week! She also said I can go completely off the steroid except as needed. At the next chemo session at the end of June, we will discuss rescanning and make more plans.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Road Trip!

We took a family trip north this last weekend. We went to Galena then stayed overnight in dubuque. We went back to the place Chad proposed to me and took some pictures and had dinner at the same restaurant. We walked the main street and went to some really neat shops. The best part was probably the caramel apples from the old fashioned candy store! From there we went to the hotel in dubuque. They had a huge rec area with a pool, hot tub, billiards, and ping pong. I have to tell you, Ry and i played ping pong (working around the beer pong game next to us!) and I can't remember the last time I laughed so hard. I was laughing so hard I was crying and couldn't see to hit the ball! Now that's good medicine!
Sunday we played in the rec area more, went to lunch, and rode the world's steepest elevator. It was basically a wooden trolley car on a rail up the side of a hill. The steepest of its kind. The view from the top was great! We ended the trip with a visit to a museum/aquarium. I was completely unimpressed. They used the word aquarium for a total of about 3 fish tanks!
I was glad to get away and spend time with my family even though things didn't go quite as well as they could have.
Tonight I go to the Germantown eighth grade graduation. This Sunday I go to a high school open house. I can't believe how fast kids grow!

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Person of the Year

So I have a classroom project I usually do around ISAT time. We spend a lot of time throughout the year talking about influences and who we should or shouldn't allow to influence us. So I created the "Person of the Year" Award. The students think about the influences in their lives and nominate a person that has had a great impact on them. This sometimes involves essays, posters, movies, etc. The class then presents to each other and votes on who should receive the award. Once a winner is selected, committees are formed to plan an award ceremony during which the winner finds out he or she has been selected and is adorned with praise.

Katie and Kayla continued this tradition this year in my absence. Yesterday, I was invited in as the winner. They made a beautiful video, gave me a lot of cards, read touching and funny essays to me, and performed a song written and composed by them! I will try to post pictures and video next week. I'm guessing some of the students have already posted pictures on facebook.

This was a very touching experience! I am so impressed with the abilities and compassion of this group of kids! I believe there are some world-changers in this group!

Fiasco!

There is no way to describe our Thursday without the word "Fiasco"!  I was not feeling well and having a hard time moving my head. When I turned certain directions, I felt like I couldn't breathe. The Dr. Set an appointment for Thursday at 11 with the Nurse Practioner. They failed to tell me it was in the Peoria office. I showed up in Pekin at 11! They called Peoria and were able to squeeze me in so we headed over. Well at least Chad and I could have a nice lunch date, right? Wrong. They decided they needed to do a doppler (sonogram) of my port to make sure there was not a blood clot forming at the end of it. That meant back to Pekin Hospital "Stat". So our nice lunch ended up being McDonald's in the car. I know, right? We get back to Pekin, get the doppler and are waiting for the results when Chad gets a call from the preschool that Chloe has fallen and cut her head! He leaves me at the hospital to wait for the results and goes to get her. I'm sure it was traumatic for er and bled a lot, but it turned out to just be a tiny cut right in the middle of the back of her head. We comforted her and cleaned her up and she is fine, but I'm not so sure about Chad! The results came back on the sono and everything was fine. Basically, I got a new pain medicine (apparently Ibuprofen is bad for platelet counts) and told to take it easier with the water fitness until the swelling goes down more.
Needless to say, that was definitely an early bedtime night!

Friday, May 6, 2011

All Things Together

Romans 8:28
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God...

Dr. LeLindqwister started our appointment off with "the MRI looks good so lets get off the steroid" She proceeded to tell us that the new MRI showed a significant reduction in swelling (compared to our last grim report) and that the risk was low enough I can ween from the steroid. That will be a process and could take up to a month to complete, but will be key in helping feel better and loose some of the swelling.

She went on to tell us that the trunk tumors are also still responding through shrinkage even after switching the chemo med.  We will continue to treat as we are and scan again in 8 weeks. This is all really great news! We still don't necessarily know what it will mean long term. We know that we will be well into summer before we know if the tumors will "go away" completely, but I think we have seen that God does miracles!
We appreciate every one's support and excitement!

We were able to follow up chemo with a fun lunch with Stac and Ry of steak n shake and coldstone (yumm! Strawberry blonde!) Lots of rest today. Chad stayed home to dote on me and make sure I napped. I got out for a little bit to plant some new flowers with the kids and now it's back to bed. Relaxing weekend for Mother's day with few plans.

Life is good!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Fun!

Taking a "Mental Health Day" with my sister! Yea!

We have all been a bit anxious waiting to hear the results of my latest scans. I totally get Einstein's theory of relativity! When time needs to go fast, it DRAAAGGGSSS! Waiting for scan results, waiting for babies to arrive, waiting for weather to warm up so we can play outside... Dr. Seuss calls it "the most useless place, the waiting place". Lucky for us, we can rest assured that in the waiting place we can let go and let God. So I'm just going to let go and enjoy my big sister today :)

If you have a sibling or friend who sits with you in that waiting place and keeps you company, be sure to give him or her a big hug and thank you!

Friday, April 29, 2011

Birthday Date

So we went out for Chad's birthday last night.  We were supposed to go to Red Lobster for the 1st time, but we were running late and Chad didn't want to be rushed so he picked Panda Express. Not what I had in mind, but what he wanted.

Once at the civic center, we found our seats which were just right and enjoyed a great show; The Celtic Woman songs from the heart tour. The music was great, the performers were very energetic, and they even had some seriously cool bagpipes!  Chloe and Levi got to hang out with Aunt Stac and Uncle Stephen and had a great time at chuck e cheese.

Now that April is almost over, I'm hoping life will slow down a little and we can get some spring work done (if it will stop raining long enough!). Now it's time for a bunch of babies to come!

Don't forget to enjoy today and help someone else do the same!

Monday, April 25, 2011

Divine Intervention

Wow! No one can tell me God doesn't lay out our steps! My sister and I were planning on taking our families to St. Louis for a Cardinals Game this last weekend. We decided on Wednesday evening to go north to Grandbear Lodge instead. We didn't want to get stuck in St. Louis not able to do anything because of the weather. Hellllooo tornadoes!

We had a great time at grandbear! They had a wave pool, baby pool, lazy river, water slides, and snacks at the indoor water park. The kids loved it! They had an arcade and the best ice cream ever. Across the parking lot, they had the loudest indoor amusements park. The kids liked that too, but boy was it loud! They got to ride rides and play ticket games. On Saturday before we left, the sun came out and we got to play on the playground and see a waterfall.






We made it to church for Easter Service yesterday and to Aunt Nancy's for an egg hunt. Of course, today I am under strict orders from Chad to rest. I didn't argue too hard with that! It's been a great week and weekend! Thank you God for sending us north!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Good Days and Bad Days

Good Day:
Doing whatever Chloe wants for her birthday.

Bad Day:
Sending Levi with Pappa for the day because he's the only one of us not sick.

Well, I guess we can't have it all all the time!

On Saturday, we picked up best buddy and went to McDonald's with the playground for lunch. We then stopped by the new horse ranch my parents had just won at an auction. That's right, my parents bought a horse ranch and selling the house they built 30 years ago. The ranch is here in town, but there is 30 years worth of stuff to move now! After the ranch, we went to Planet X. Chloe did great and best buddy caught the hang of it soon after. Poor Chad was rollerblading around with 2 little girls by himself! He did awesome because he's such an awesome dad! Aunt Nancy, Zach, and Grams came by to help too! I really do love skating and am good at it, but it isn't really in the cards for me now :(
We went home for naps and then out again for pizza and a movie with Aunt Stac and her family. We saw "Hop". Good family show!

Saturday night, not so fun. Chad and Chloe took turns in the bathroom, Levi & I retired to the couch. Anti nausea meds kept me from the bathroom, but the nausea was still pretty strong and has hung on for several days. I think I'm finally getting it out of my system, but it was definitely not a fun Sunday! I'm very sorry for those of you catching the same thing going around! Remember good hand washing and replace your toothbrush!

Friday, April 15, 2011

Update

Yesterday was chemo #4. We always meet with a care provider first. We met with a nurse practioner. We expressed concern over some hearing side effects (What?)and some steroid side effects. They decided to change one of the chemo meds. Instead of cisplatin, I was given carboplatin. They are sister drugs. Carboplatin was one of the meds originally considered. It has less harsh neurotoxins. That makes it slightly less aggressive, but hearing loss would be permanent and continuing the cisplatin is seriously risking just that.
There is not really anything that can be done about the steroid side effects until another brain MRI is done. So we also scheduled an MRI and CT scan for April 28th, the week before chemo #5.
With the drug change, treatment went faster and smoother. I did not have to have extra fluids,or the shot that cleans my kidneys (which is uncomfortable!) so I even finished a couple hours sooner than usual! I have been tolerating the chemo pretty well, but I really feel like the hearing loss was getting too drastic. By the way, my apologies if we have been on the phone or having a conversation and I misheard you!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Lessons Learned

It is important to me to make sure that I live every day to the best of my ability. I am learning, however, that changes each day. The latest news from the doctors was that we would keep doing chemo and scanning 3 weeks at a time. It overwhelmed me that there is still no definitive timeline to our plan. Oh how I like to be able to plan! So, I made a decision. I will continue to live everyday to my fullest, I will record story books for my kids, I will make plans. I will purge our home and our lives of chaos and disorder. I will maintain as regular of a schedule as I can. I will move forward with plans to make our home our own.
I still get pretty tired, but I am learning that projects do not have to be completed in a day and it's ok to stop and take a rest. Of course, most men operate that way anyway :)

Friday, April 8, 2011

Thank You!

Last night was the fundraiser at Yesterday's. Again we had a huge turn out! My family is so blessed by all the support and encouragement we receive! I can't tell you what a difference it makes in my recovery! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Monday, April 4, 2011

Busy Bee!

Monkey Joe's
6th grade lunch party
Alabama relatives
Birthday party

So much to do so little time! Those of you wondering, Monkey Joe's is definitely a fun play date. We had 3 moms (2 of them pregnant!), and 7 kids! They squealed, ran, and giggled the entire time! The price was reasonable and I never once had to climb into an inflatable myself :)

A group of 6th grade girls came for a lunch date Thursday. There are some pretty awesome 6th grade moms out there! I sat down with the girls and we were served finger sandwiches, chips, cheeses, and drinks. There was even a delicious jello cake for dessert! I didn't even lift a finger! The girls made some very special posters for me and shared some great encouragement. My favorite: When life gives you lemons, make grape juice and watch the world wonder how you did it.

My cousin and her family arrived Thursday evening from North Carolina. They have a 4 year old and a 5 month old. We had a blast getting all our kids together! I think they were a little overwhelmed, though! When we get together there are a LOT of us!

We topped off our spring break with a birthday party. Since Chloe and Levi have birthdays only a couple weeks apart, we decided this year we needed to have one party instead of two separate ones. We decided on a Sundae Bar. We got all sorts of ice cream and toppings and even a cake shaped like an ice cream cone! We played pin the cherry on the ice cream cone and indulged in every ice cream sweetness we wanted. The kids opened a million presents and a good time was had by all!

Today it's back to the grind stone and prepare for another weekend of visits. Of course, I may never actually be DONE going through toys and putting away presents!

This Thursday is a "Guest Bartender" Fundraiser at Yesterday's Bar and Grill down town. Chad and I will be there with the kids for dinner to kick the night off. We appreciate all your support!


Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Play Time!

What a busy week and it's only Wednesday! After chemo, we went to a reception to honor my sister's women in leadership award, I went to the Wilson talent show - awesome!, and Chad's brother came into town from Colorado! We spent the weekend playing and visiting. Monday, Levi turned 2! He is such a big boy! He's talking like crazy, running around all over the place, and smart as can be! I think sissy's going to get a run for her money! Last night I got a night out with Stac and Heather for pedicures. A welcome respite to a very busy time! Today it's Monkey Joe's and birthday shopping! It's all a lot to do and I probably need to rest more, but I can't seem to help myself! Happy Spring Break! (even with the crummy weather!)

Friday, March 25, 2011

CT Scan

Good News yesterday!
My trunk tumors are responding well to the chemo treatments. There has been no new growth, there has been some shrinking of the existing tumors, and no growing of existing tumors. The plan is to continue to treat and scan until we find they are no longer responding. The brain lesions can be stable for an unknown period of time and the pain/ symptoms of the swelling can be controlled with the steroids.

We are very happy to receive good news from the doctors! We are still making play dates and loving on each other as much as possible. We appreciate all the prayers and support!

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Speechless

Saturday's vendor fair was a HUGE success! We cannot even express to you all what your support means to us! There was such generosity and encouragement offered! It really does make all the difference in the world! Thank you so much to all who helped make the day possible!
If you were wondering, the fair was organized by my two best friends since kindergarten. They had a lot of help, but clearly they are awesome ladies!
I am feeling pretty good and continuing to make plans. We have a CT scan Monday at 9:45 and will find out more before chemo on Thursday. I am back on line again so I will keep you all posted.
Again, thank you so much for all your support!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

MRI Results

We met with the radiologist today to find out the results of the MRI which would show the effectiveness of the radiation. The whole brain radiation was the most aggressive line of treatment and given at the maximum level.  The MRI yesterday showed no significant change in the brain. The lesions have not shrunk, reduced in number, or grown. They are "stable." There are no other options for treatment of the brain on this avenue. On any other avenue is not likely, but we will still consult the oncologist and the specialists in Chicago. I am back on a steroid 2x day to control swelling and make sure I don't get headaches. The goal is to be pain free as much as possible. There is no way to know what this all means as far as my prognosis except that it is grim news. We are now no longer able to count on medicine to help me, just prayer and the Lord. We will find out next week how the chemo is working and likely have some decisions to make. I spent time with my family today grieving, but now we will move on and continue to live each day to its fullest. It won't be easy. We appreciate all your strength and encouragement you send our way. We are planning some family outings and  hoping to make some great memories this spring. I am convinced that God is still in control and I am choosing to trust Him,

My Apologies for the blackout!

My computer crashed! Someone at Chad's work was able to fix it with no losses, but it took a while. I am committed to spend the next few days trying to catch up and reply to everyone. Thank you for your patience!

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Lessons learned...even on a "non-school day"!

Again, don't get too excited....this is Katie (the hacker again), not Lisa.  I wanted to share some pictures from our President's Day Playdate!  (For those teachers who are reading this, you know that President's Day, Columbus Day, MLK Day, and Veteran's Day rank pretty high on our holiday lists!)  11 kids under the age of 8...three pregnant women...crafts...and lunch!?! 







Lisa, your ability to find strength and energy amaze me...I know that you have probably taught function charts, the themes of geography, and helped to build a plant cell at least 1,000 times each...I just wanted to thank you for continuing to teach us lessons each day.  I look at your positive attitude, deep love for all around you, your faith...and I feel that I have learned so much from just watching how you carry yourself and cherish each day! 

As you face the new challenges before you, know that you are deeply loved and looked up to by many!  Keep the lessons coming Mrs. S, and thanks for the fun playdate!

PS...I had to add this because it was too funny not too, also shows how much fun your house is!  (Don't worry the little one to fall was mine and he is fine!)

Friday, February 25, 2011

Ouch!

Sorry I had to take a few days off. This port has proven to be the most painful aspect of this entire experience. Since "Shrek" is the soundtrack of our lives, I keep thinking of the 1st movie when Shrek has an arrow in his butt and Fiona yanks it out when he doesn't expect it and he jumps and says "ouch!"

We had a great play day Monday! There were 11 kids here under the age of 7! The kids had a blast, but I think the moms got worn out :) It was nice to see everyone!

Tuesday I rested most of the day and got to see my sister in the evening. Wednesday the port was put in and my friends cleaned for us. Thursday, I got to have a movie date with Beth, see Jen, visit with Aunt Cass who brought me lunch AND fixed a super yummy beef and noodles dinner, and see the Wilson laundry crew! Whew! I guess I didn't really take a few days off, I just didn't get to any correspondence!

They say this port will be totally worth it and will be unnoticeable once it heals. I hope they're right!

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Port is in

We are home from the hospital, with Lisa resting.  The procedure went smoothly, the port is in place.  She is in a bit of pain from the incision, but rest and medicine are taking care of that.

We came home to a flurry of activity, several of Lisa's teacher friends came over to clean, which is a wonderful help!

Things are settling down now, getting ready to feed the kids dinner.  Just wanted to let everyone know things are going well.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Calling All Vendors!

We will be having a fundraiser!

Wilson School Gym
900 Koch St.
Saturday, March 19th, 10am-3pm
$25 per table (profits are yours to keep)

If you or someone you know would like to participate, please email me your name, the number of tables you would like, and the type of product you would like to sell.

tiggertwo@hotmail.com

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Dr. Results

So we went to the Dr. today to review the results of yesterday's post-chemo blood work. The Dr. and nurse practitioner both met with me and were happy with my report. The blood work showed that all blood counts and kidney function are in the normal range. I worried that might mean it's not working. Doc assured me that is not the case. Apparently, they have also been wondering how someone in my situation would respond to chemo. It's not often they treat "young, healthy" patients. The blood work tells them that my bone marrow is strong enough to repair itself from the chemo. That, of course, is the goal. Kill the cancer cells, let the healthy cells regenerate.

She also suggested I stop taking the anti-nausea meds regularly and just take them as needed. I think I took 1 today. Maybe 2. They have scheduled an appointment for me to receive a port which would mean fewer needle sticks, and my next chemo is scheduled for March 3rd. All good news!

I am still very tired. Today I took 2 naps. Both sleeping for a few hours. Sometimes I just rest and have quiet time, but today I slept. Doc says that will pass. Right now I have an overlap of radiation and chemo and I'm coming off the steroid. In a few days, the tiredness should improve. I won't doubt her because I have such awesome prayer warriors and an incredible support network!

Please continue to pray for my family and their health. They have a tendency to put me first and neglect their own need for rest or a dr. visit. We are also lining up a number of fundraisers so you can pray for favor and smoothness of planning. (is that even a proper phrase?)
Praise God for all the results being so positive and all the support I have. When we arrived at the clinic today, a taxi was waiting while someone received their treatment. It made me so sad that there are people who have no support network to even get a ride to treatments! We have been so blessed!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Tough Day

I think today was it. I still have not had any nausea, but I was so tired I did not think I would be able to get out of bed. Of course, today was the day I had morning appointments and a lot of plans! Once I got up and moving, I became convinced I wouldn't make it through the day. Then I went outside. What a beautiful day! The fresh air helped me get going and the rest fell into place.
Dad was my driver for the day. We took the kids to the salon for haircuts. Miss Andrea always treats us well! Chloe got to go to school with pink and green hair gel and Levi looks like a handsome little man! Then we had to go for a chemo follow up blood draw at Pekin Hospital. I had not planned on taking the kids with us, but it took me too long to get out of the house so they had to go along. Of course, they were "unusually busy" today and we had a bit of a wait. The good news: they got me on the first stick! That almost NEVER happens! By the time we finished there it was almost time for Chloe to be at school, but she needed lunch. McDonald's! We called Mrs. Janssen and let her know Chloe would be a few minutes late and had some McD's before dropping both kids off where they belonged. We ran into some friends there on their lunch break and got some great hugs and smiles. Then dad dropped me off for a nap. Chad was still home. Turns out he wasn't feeling so well either :(
I rested until 3 then had a string of visitors. Shelly brought by the proceeds from the Valentine silent auction, Dave brought by some baklava he had saved for us, and Nikki stopped by now that she is well again.
Sue and Gregg arrived around 5 with dinner for the kids so we could go on our special date. We went to 309 at Junction City. It was a lovely dinner. On the way, I got a call from my sister. Today was a special day for her. I am sad that I missed it, but so proud of her! She won an award from the Y for Women in Leadership. It is an honor to be nominated, and she won! So on the way to dinner we got to hear all about it. The restaurant was nice and the food was good. We ended up with way more than we could eat! Their portions were very generous. It is always nice to get to have grown up time and eat a meal that is still hot! When we got home, Gregg was finishing putting up handrails on our stairs (yeah!) and the kids were playing with Sue. They had a great time so there was none of that parent guilt about leaving them :)
So... I guess my tough day turned out to be OK after all. I think if that kind of tiredness a few days after chemo is the worst I have to deal with then I can't really complain, I get nervous that maybe it's not working because I'm not "sick", but I have been assured that the meds are just that good. I guess we'll find out at our appointment tomorrow!

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Playdate

Chemo has been tolerable so far. I spent much of yesterday in bed sleeping. I was able to eat a wonderful homemade meal delivered by Cheryl. I am taking anti-nausea pills every 4 hours and they seem to be working well. No vomitting. The fatigue has been much harder. There isn't much we can do to fight it except rest.

Today, Ry had arranged a sledding family adventure. We weren't able to go at 10 as planned, but we were still able to go later and had a blast! It was a perfect set up! We went to Victory Acres off of Cameron Lane. Ry's work buddy let us borrow a 4 wheeler! We could ride the sleds and intertube down the hill and use the 4 wheeler to get back up! Chloe went down by herself! She crashed at the end of each trip and just got right back on and finished down the hill! Stac, Noah, Isaac, Ry, Heather, Ryder, Dad, Chad, Chloe and I all sledded. I wore out before everyone else, so Heather took me back to her house with Ryder and we had snacks. When everyone else was done, we had pizza hut. It was a great day! I hope you all make time for some fun family adventures too! Tell me all about them!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

From the Pit

I am one-handed blogging from my recliner in the chemo treatment room. Things have gone fine, but the actual iv in my veins didn't start until after noon so I will likely be here until supper time. Chad and Ry are both here with me so they can take turns if they need to. Right now there is enough space that they can both be back here with me. The daunting thing for me is sitting here for so long! Thank God for ipads and wi-fi!

The test results we were waiting for came back. There was no mutation so the pill form of chemo will be reserved for 2nd line defense. We will have a follow up with Dr. Le-Lindqwister next week and she will set us up with an appt to get a port put in so there won't be a lot of needle sticks after today. The expectation is that the next 3 days will tell what my side effect will be and how severe. In 3 weeks, I will return here and do the same thing again. Then scans, then the 3rd round. Radiation will be checked by MRI on March 14th.

Have a great day! Do something that's not sitting in a chair for me!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Praiseworthy

As I was contemplating what to write today, I decided to share some praise reports and prayer requests. As I have had visitors, comments have been made about how positive I have been and how hard that must be. It's hard to explain that to others. Then I received this email from 'Women of Faith' and it seems to put it perfectly. I will still add praise and prayer requests to the end of the article.

Your Favorite Bad Feeling
Finally . . . whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. —Philippians 4:8 NIV
If we can’t control anything else in our lives, we can control what we think about. But when we have been buffeted by a situation that throws us, it is easy to abdicate our control and go to our “favorite bad feeling.” That’s the feeling we went to as a child because we learned that it helped us get what we wanted. Once you are an adult, you will find that it is the first place your mind rushes when there is something troubling on your mental radar screen.
Some of us cry, some pout, some sleep, some eat chocolate, some go shopping, some withdraw, and some slam doors, some clean house, some sit and stare. You could probably fill in your own favorite bad feeling. But you don’t have to respond that way, you can choose not to go there. Circumstances rarely change, but how you feel about the circumstances can change dramatically.
How you feel is up to you, not to anyone else in your life. Peace is the result of choosing to focus your mind on what is true and honorable and right. When you choose to do that, it is amazing how much peace will overtake your mind and heart.
—Jan Silvious
Excerpted from A Grand New Day © 2008 by Thomas Nelson. Published in Nashville, Tennessee, by Thomas Nelson. Used with permission. All rights reserved.
Praise:
  • 1/2 way through my 2nd round of antibiotics and with slightly adjusted use of my inhaler, my wheezing and rattling are gone!
  • Both kids have finished their 2nd round of antibiotics and are feeling well!
  • Chad did NOT catch what the rest of us had!
  • Dr. Salgia says we have a lot of options and he would like to treat aggressively.
  • We have received a number of very generous and thoughtful gifts.
Prayer Requests:
  • My sister is very sick. We miss each other but she can't come around until she is fever free. She needs rest.
  • Our chemo class is today and treatment starts Thursday. Pray for good decisions from the dr.s, strength for my body, and courage for Chad.
  • We need wisdom in handling paperwork for things like disability, social security, etc. Those things work differently for teachers so it is complicated.
Don't forget to make today count!

Saturday, February 5, 2011

2nd Opinion

Typical for us: "are you waiting to be seen?" "Yes my appointment was at noon" "hmmm" she says as she walks away at 1:00!!!!
We did eventually get to see Dr. Salgia and it went well. Stac was able to participate over the phone. The Dr. actually held the phone and addressed her directly several times. I will have her post some time this weekend a better understanding of what we found out. The bottom line Chad & I both got out of it is that he wants to be aggressive, he feels  like we have several options, and he is happy to work with Dr. Le-Lindqwister's group so treatment can be local as much as possible. All good news.
It is not hereditary so there is no extra concern for my children or siblings. Of course, there is now a family history so there will be precautions, but no immediate concerns. There is a high risk clinic at the University if famliy members are concerned, but he said no need for worry now.
He also addressed some concerns we had about the radiation and going off the steroid. I had a lot of anxiety about going off the steroid and worrying that the brain swelling would come back. He assured us it's good to go off the steroid and gave us better direction on what to look for in the way of the swelling returning.
We really liked what he had to say about each case being individual and not believing in statistics and I signed paperwork to add whatever information they can to the research they do. We were assigned a person to watch over our case and be our specific contact person that we can call any time and directly when working with the University.
I know these are terrible circumstances we are facing and the fight ahead will get ugly, but it is still amazing to me to meet some of the people who fight this battle for us on a daily basis. I know people say it takes a calling to be a teacher and that even different grades require different callings, but cancer treatment is such a calling and the people who have come along our side have been amazing! I am in awe of the medical community!
The current order is to spend now until the 10th resting and playing. On the 10th, chemo or an alternative plan created by the dr.s together with some new information they are waiting on, will begin.

Typical for us: amtrak:"the 5:00 train you booked has been cancelled. If you report to the station a bus will be available for you." Arrive at the station and ask "where do we catch the bus that is replacing the 5:00 train to Bloomington?" Amtrak:"Is there a bus?" Long story short: we caught a bus home from Chicago and made it to Bloomington by 8. We are SOOO glad to be back home and with our kids!

Friday, February 4, 2011

A Little Bit of Fun

Today is the big day! We meet with our "Guru". We were finally able to get out of the hotel yesterday. We went to an indoor inflatable playground, the Rock N Roll McDonald's, and the Rain Forest Cafe before we loaded everyone onto the train for home. I did fine until Chloe crired :(

We had a hard time getting through to Amtrak and making travel arrangements. Stac was so worried they would all get back to Bloomington and then get stuck there! Brian came to our rescue! He drove over to the train station, checked the parking lot, and made sure the cars weren't buried! What a great guy!

I will post again this weekend to share what we find out.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

A Good Husband

We have been cooped up in this hotel since lunch time Tuesday. With the storm, they have had buffets for each meal set out. The same staff have been here with us as well. Those who served breakfast were the same as those who served every other meal. There is no housekeeping service. The pool is great, but after swimming, I got leg cramps and decided it wasn't the best idea. All outside attractions are closed. Isaac will barely eat because he's not a fan of the hotel food. The "cooped up" feeling is starting to get to all of us.

So, I get cranky with the kids, we order delivery pizza which is "the best food Isaac has eaten in 4 days!" and we go to the pool to watch the kids swim. That was too hot and steamy. So my crankyness level has just about hit the roof. We finally get ready for bed and I decide I really need some chocolate. What do you mean those vending machines only have soda?! I need a snickers or chocolate ice cream. Maybe room service? What does a good husband do at this point? He takes the little girl in her jammies to the hotel lounge and has her give them a pretty face to get some carryout chocolate ice cream! It hit the spot like you wouldn't believe! Did I mention it was after 10? Now that's a good husband!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Not Even Kidding!

I am posting ffrom Chicago. As we were deboarding the train, the University called to see if they could reschedule my appointment for next week! I told them I was arriving in Chicago so they are working me in Friday at noon. Chicago is shutting down so it is good that we got here when we did. If  possible, the rest of the family will come home tomorrow as originally planned. The kids will have to spend a couple nights without mommy and daddy, but they will love the "sleepover adventure". Luckily, the ACS set us up at a great hotel because I think this is where we'll be most of the time. Thank goodness the kids all LOVE to swim!

Monday, January 31, 2011

Snow Day!

SNOW DAY! Everybody spend your day as frivoulously and fun as possible! What a great day to snuggle, laugh, and play!

This is it!

Today is my last of 14 radiation treatments! I decided to take in treats. When you are a teacher and someone has a special day, you bring in treats. Or if it's Friday and you want to hang in the lounge with your friends : P So I decided to take in little heart bowls of 100 grands. The people in the office have been so accomodating to me and friendly and invested in my treatments. They ask to see my pictures, they tell me how much they like my newest hat, and they always have the biggest smiles for me. I know I am a rock star and have a lot of clout and all, but these people are amazing! There is not enough money in the world to pay for what they offer.
I can think of no better way to celebrate than to end our day with an evening full of fun and laughter and memory making! I am so excited about what God has in store for me today! I barely slept a wink in anticiaption. It's ok. They have meds for that : P

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Play Date!

What a fun day! Chad went to lunch with a friend of his and my sister brought the boys over and Ciara joined us for an afternoon of fun! We went to lunch and bowling. I watched instead of played, but Chloe said that's ok because mommy doesn't bowl well anyway!
I am pretty tired, but I am napping and feeling well. It allows me to better enjoy the times I can get up and play. Tomorrow we will head to church and Chad & I will have a dinner date. Fun Times!

Friday, January 28, 2011

A League of Extraordinary Women

After school yesterday a League of Extraordinary Women descended upon my house. Laundry was wisked away and brought back clean and folded. Bathrooms and bedrooms were scoured and degermified and beutified. Iwas able to lay in bed at the end of the night surrounded by clean and fresh. I cannot tell you what a blessing that was to me. I can tell you that these are incredible women! They loved on me, laughed with me, and worked their tails off! Thank you for blessing our family so!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Catch a Break

Poor Chad! There are now 3 sick people in our house! Both babies and I are on antibiotics for this nasty respiratory thing going around. I think both of my siblings and my dad have also caught it :( It took me 3 days to tell the doctor it hurt to swallow and it turns out I could have been on meds even sooner and actully been feeling like myself! Don't take your health for granted. Just because it's not terminal, doesn't mean you shouldn't get it checked out. Don't put off calling the doctor because of your schedule! It's a lot easier to take care of the business of living if your body is well. We all deserve that. Drink your juice, take your vitamins, get your rest, play every day! Forgive a preachy post : P

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

2nd Opinion

We will be headed to the University of Illinois at Chicago next week for a second opinion from some lung cancer specialists. We hope to make a trip of it, take the kids to the aquarium, that sort of thing. Radiation ends the 31st and chemo won"t start until the 10th so we have time to get the opinion.  Dr. LeLindqwister's office is making all those arrangements for us. This is a specialist she is specifically requesting to look at my case because she was recently impressed by his research specific to the lungs.

Bald and Beautiful!

I wlil get a picture/video loaded as I figure out how :)
My hair started falling out in the shower over the weekend. I decided it was not something I wanted to mess with so my wonderful hairdresser came to my house and shaved my head! I'll let you each decide if you like it or not, but I am perfectly happy with my decision. I did not shed even one tear. It's funny how God can show us things that really matter and things that don't. I look at this as a great opportunity to show my duaghter that it is not what is on the outside that makes us beautiful. Of course, it's also a great opportuniy to rock some bling :)

Monday, January 24, 2011

Home Again

Just wanted to give everyone an update.  Lisa, Chloe, and Levi are all back home tonight, sleeping soundly (with the aid of some prescribed medicines).  Chloe and Levi both still had fevers today, but we are keeping those under control with Children's Tyelonel and Ibuprofen. 

In addition, Lisa is back home and somewhat comfortable.  She had her daily radiation treatment in Peoria around 6pm , and will be back on schedule for Tuesday's appointment at 12:20. 

We find out what the plan is for chemo tomorrow.

Update

Dr. LeLindqwister just left. I can be out of here and back home by tomorrow at the latest! I will be on bloodthinners indefinitely, but the solution is as simple as a daily shot of medicine. We will still meet Tuesday to discuss the chemotherapy, but the radiation will end after the 14th treatment and I will have a week break before the chemo starts. Newest question... What do you do with a week off from cancer treatments?

Props

I want to take a moment to recognize a group of people who have gone so far out of their way to help our family right now. My sister is an employee at Methodist Medical Center. She is a clinical director with a lot of responsabilities. Her family at Methodist has completly embraced our family during this time giving her all the flexability she needs to take care of me right now. In addition, they have generously donated time, food, and gift cards to take care of us. There are so many people pouring out support right now. I could not begin to name them all. However, I am deeply touched by the compassion and generosity of this culture. The immediate and generous response says everything about the legacy this organization is striving to leave. Our family is blessed and forever grateful.

Complications

I am writing this blog from a room on the oncology floor at OSF. An increase in wheezing and shortness of breath led us to the emergency room for a scan which revealed a blood clot in my lung. Apparently this is a common complication with cancer patients. However, the nature of blood clots is very serious so they have admitted me for blood thinners and will be watching my vitals for a few days. I have only seen ED doctors so I will not know until tomorrow how long I will be here or how it will affect my treatment plan.

Chloe was also seen in the ED tonight. She has had a fever since Saturday and it was not responding well to meds. She was miserable! They found an ear infection and started her on an antibiotic.

Obviously, this was not in our plans! Even when our apple cart was turned over, we had some idea of what would be happening over the next couple of weeks. It seems as though we really had no idea! Chloe and Levi are with Aunt Heather tonight. The rest of my family was here with me. Chad is asleep in the fold out chair next to my bed. Tomorrow he will stay home in the evening with the kids to get some time in with them with "normalcy" and my sister will stay with me. Beyond that, we have no plan or idea what to expect. This is definitely testing my trust in God to just follow His steps!

I am very sad to say that our scrapbooking party (which I was SO looking forward to!) will have to be postponed :(

Lots of Hugs!

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Milestone

Yesterday was the 8th treatment out of 14. I am officially over half way through whole brain radiation! I have the weekend off so we are going to play!
I'm getting donuts for breakfast, college buds for play time with the kids, and a family football party at my brother's house to teach the nephews how to root for Bears not Packers. I think they may resist :)

Friday, January 21, 2011

Peoria Push Derby Dames :)

A friend has passed along this information about a way to raise some money for the Illinois Cancer Care Fountation.  If you are looking for something to do this weekend, it sounds like a fun activity to watch and a great cause to support!
 
(This is from an email)
 
"I'm playing roller derby for the Peoria Push Derby Dames, and we're having a bout this Saturday at the Peoria Civic Center. We'll probably never play in that area again (because it's huge), so this has become an opportunity for us to make it a huge charity event. We've decided to give all the profits from ticket sales to the Illinois Cancer Care Foundation. If you know anyone that would want to come, just send them to our website to buy tickets. The more tickets we sell, the more we can give them! Our website is http://www.peoriarollerderby.org/ "

Wilson

I went to Wilson today to visit my students. They are an amazing group of kids! They have sent me so much love and encouragement. I even have students sending me encouraging scriptures to remind me that God is good and to lean not on my own understanding. In addition to hugging your kids, I want to add a reminder not to underestimate the awesomeness of their understanding and the capacity of their hearts to love and hope!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Party Girl

It's true. Girls just want to have fun! My sister has tried to convince me for YEARS that playing hookey every now and then is good for mental health. Too bad we had to wait for cancer to make us do it!

We started with a 5 minute radiation treatment. That is the beginning of each day, but very surreal and short. We left there and went to lunch at avanti's. Those of you who actually work during the day are missing a serious joingin of forces "doing lunch" at Avanti's! We went to Hair Depot at noon for a hair cut. Lots of caring thoughts, but even better shop talk! I go ta "pixie cut" so my hair is SHORT but sassy and cute and totally me. Even better, it looks SUPER cute iwth some of my new hats - also super cute! I told my sister I couldn't be much cuter! After a hair cut, we had to go shopping. There is a special shop at Methodist just for patients going through cancer treatment. They had great lotions, creams, hats, and lots of other things. My big sis spoiled me with new jammies and a hat and a blanket that smells likwe lavender and can be put in the microwave or freezer for extra relief. Who comes up with this stuff!? From there we went to Serenity Day Spa in East Peoria. We had full pedicures and manicures. I did a great job of not crying, but the spa ladies struggled a little. Right? Stac got roughed up a bit, but she survived with minimal scarring :) I am "sparkalicious" so my toe and fingernails are nothing but glitter! Levi is quite fascinated!

We came home and Stac made me my favorite mac n cheese, my friend gave the kids baths, Katie came by with all kinds of goodies, and I got to put my new jammies on and snuggle with my kids. Levi recently developed a love of laying next to mommy with his fingers laced through mine while we watch anhy and every episode of Shrek. Chloe curls up next to him and plays a matching game on daddy's ereader, and daddy stands back an watches his beauties and waites on my every whim. Wait, is someone feeling sorry for me? Instead, show this to your family and tell them to take notes!

What a beautiful day!
Thank you so much for all your support and love! It is felt every minute!

Don't get too excited...this post is from Katie (The Hacker) not Lisa (sorry!)

Hello all,


I have hacked into Lisa's blog to share information on the Helper Calendar.  Heather (Lisa's fabulous sister in law) has set up an online calendar to keep her organized!  At the top of the blog there is a yellow bar that contains a link to access the calendar.  This will take you to a page where you will need a sign in which is loveforlisateam@gmail.com and the password is lovinglisa.  Heather also typed up a very user friendly "How To" sheet that I will "try" to attach to this post....


We thought that this might be a better way to sign up for meals so that Lisa and Chad know who is coming!  Also, just a thought that you may want to include what you are bringing so that there won't be repeats (and so the kids will get an answer as to "What's for dinner?")   After accessing the blog you will find that Lisa's whole day (visitors and all!) is on there!  Included is her schedule for doctor's appointments, playdates, and haircuts!  (Heather, you need a raise!)

That's all I have for now...but I am sure this isn't the end of my hacking days!!

Thanks,
Katie


Instructions from Heather on just accessing the calendar:

Dear family and friends of Lisa,
Thank you all so much for your love and support!  I am Lisa’s personal assistant and I am helping to keep everything organized so everyone can have time with Lisa and help in an orderly fashion!
I have created an online calendar through google if you would like to see where Lisa has more time and could use some help! I will be using the 5 am time slot to post ways people can help each day…things like dinner, extra hands with the kids, and someone to keep Lisa company during the day!
To view the calendar,
1.    Search google calendar
2.    In the left column, hit ‘sign in now’
4.    Password: lovinglisa
5.    And BAM! You can view Lisa’s calendar
If you would like to schedule something, feel free to add it right in by clicking on a time and what you would like to do!  Or you can also, call, text, or email me to check when and how you can help! 

I am hoping this will allow people more access to information without feeling like you have to ask all the time “what can I do?”  We all want to help, so hopefully this will be an organized way to make that happen! 

Thank you again for all you are doing to show Lis how much we love her,
Heather Yancey
309-267-9202